Monday, January 6, 2014

Picking the bridal party

Lol I'm sure my hubby is still in denial that we really ended up with a bridal party of 32 excluding lil kids.  the crux of the matter is I LOVE ALOT OF PEOPLE lol.  honestly I can not imagine my day without anyone of my girlies.

The key to picking bridesmaids is
Pick people who love you and want only the best for you.
Pick people who are proactive and helpful.
Pick people whose personalities wont clash with the groomsmen or at least people who are easy to get on with. 
Pick people who are fun to be with love to laugh and have good times.
Being able to dance should not be a deal breaker trust me :-)  but atleast one couple should have their dancing shoes to lead the rest.
Pick people who know how to deal with you when you are stressed, depressed, angry, upset, Livid.  These people will stop you from killing someone or saying something you will later regret.
Pick someone who will have time to discuss with you all the intricate details of your wedding from making sure the groom has socks to making sure you have the right spanx to wear under your dress.

Your maid of honour should tick atlest 80% of the boxes because she will be your go to person to make sure your day is great.

If you are fortunate enough to have one like mine hehehehe you are trully blessed.  She was so serious that she took all the stress on herself and i was the calm one :-)   I love you taffy.  you will never know how much chokwadi.


xoxo

PS.  i beg please dont make your girls look like old maids.  its really not a good look.  and you are jus ruining your wedding pics in the hope they dnt outshine you.

Oh and if the groomsmen are lovers of women you may need to get ur girls ready to deal with alot of affection LOL.  


1 comment:

  1. I feel keft out..sob sob...am allowed to post a pic of me kikiki...but thats so true hey...u gotta have all your girlies around n it makes the whole party exciting...another party wld have brought fights but with us twas all love n FOOD shared..lol. ..believe me u can never get nuff of these pics..

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